I really should be telling you what I've been buying. But I can't be bothered given my mood of late. So, today, once again, I'm just here to talk.
I know I've been asking you about friendship a LOT lately. But it's something that makes me really curious, because there seems to be so many unspoken rules about the whole thing that makes it so complicated. Particularly when it comes to detaching yourself from a friendship. How long after you haven't spoken do you consider yourself no longer friends? or acquaintances? This is really hard when it comes to people you knew in high school. When I think about my high school group [not including Sarah, who I still cling to for dear life], I NEVER talk to them anymore. like, ever. We only ever talk on b'days and that's just to send a txt and facebook message saying happy birthday. So what are they? because even though I was close to them once, I'm definitely not now. If I had to classify them I'd say they were acquaintances. Hm..
but how long before you stop inviting them to things like birthday parties? When I was planning my party this year I really had to think about who I should include and exclude, and I didn't invite them even though I invited them last year. And even if I did, would it be weird to invite someone you haven't spoken to in months purely because of something that used to be there? Or should you invite them to 'catch up'? Ah, confusing stuff..
Dude, I need to cut down on the thinking. It's making my blog serious. [Seriously emo that is. LOL].
Nah, in all honesty though, life is going pretty well now. And today was my last day of actual uni, so I'm happy. =]
Weeeee.
xx
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